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【家嘈屋閉】

真人真事改編:有個八歲的小女孩,每次聽到爸媽吵架都很怕。她總是躲在房間蓋著被,聽著他們在客廳的吵架。有時怒吼有時說著難聽的話,看不見,聽得到。吵得最兇那次,她在房內聽到很多碰撞聲、玻璃聲,全家就只有他們三個人。最親近的父母,卻變成最可怕的陌生人。這次受驚,女孩不安很多天,悶悶不樂,不願說話。母親走到房間耐心了解,女孩只哭不語。父母擔心以為她身體不適或是在學校被欺負。細問之下,女兒拿起手機,把他們一次一次吵架的錄音播出來。那些聲嘶力竭的男聲女聲,聽得二人毛骨悚然。他們吵架的時候大概沒有意識到,自己說過這些話,做過這些事。同時他們火遮眼到一個程度,忘記了女兒在房間聽著驚嚇著,一次又一次磨蝕了她的安全感。
可以給孩子最昂貴的教育、最名貴的衫褲、最有利成長的飲食,我們看得見他們快高長大官仔骨骨臉色紅紅,卻看不見他們心裡的陰影和脆弱處。
聽說過無形恐懼沒得醫,而無形恐懼往往是陰影造成。使得只要一觸動,所有畫面、過去的記憶、那吵架聲、那哭著罵著的咀臉都一一呈現了。幾多和睦都中和不到抹不掉。
要教好子女,首先是要做對相愛和諧、互相尊敬的好夫妻,至少不要家嘈屋閉。孩子看著你們,只是有時你們看不見他們。
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